jilly@jillygreen.com
07776 190757
Funeral Planning
From the moment I’m contacted, I aim to make the process as smooth and supportive as possible.
If I've been contacted by the Funeral Director rather than the family directly, I call the family within 24 hours of being notified (unless asked otherwise) to arrange a meeting. I keep the Funeral Director informed every step of the way; confirming when contact has been made and when the meeting is scheduled, so you don't need to worry about the logistics.
I meet the family wherever they feel most comfortable - at home, another venue, or via video call.
The family meeting will take as long as it takes - I don't put a time limit on our meeting as I know that this can be a very difficult conversation and emotions can be very raw, and together we'll gently talk about the person’s life story and wishes.
If the family hasn't yet chosen the music for the service, I’ll guide them through the options and support the family in selecting meaningful readings, tributes, and contributions for the ceremony.
After our meeting, I’ll send the Funeral Director the Order of Service and the family will receive a draft for approval within a couple of days.
Then I start to write a ceremony and Eulogy that’s truly personal - one that captures the essence of the person and what mattered most to them. The draft Eulogy or Tribute will then be shared with the lead family member to make sure it feels right and accurate and together we can make any changes required.
I'll also write all of the other elements of the service - the opening, the committal and the closing words.
On the day of the service, I’ll arrive at the Chapel 30 minutes early to check the music and make any needed adjustments and I'll work closely with the Funeral Director and Chapel Attendant to ensure the service is in line with the family’s wishes.
After the ceremony, I’ll provide a keepsake copy of the readings, Eulogy, and any blessings for the family to hold onto.
Tailor Made Services For Your Loved One
Most people don't realised that there are actually no rules with a celebrant-led funeral - you can hold them anywhere (assuming you have permission) and there are a multitude of ways to get your loved one there, whether it's on a motorbike and sidecar, a horse-driven cart or even a Land Rover equipped especially for the job.
So whether you choose a crematorium or a woodland burial, don't feel like you have to follow "the norm" and take the time to think about what you really want for your loved one.
Many venues today are delighted if your pets come along too, allowing loyal animals to say their own farewells.
Whether you prefer a green burial in a forest or a traditional crematorium, I encourage you to look beyond standard practices to find what truly fits your loved one.
Please contact me if you'd like to discuss the options - I'm more than happy to advise you.
This was the beautiful setting for my husband's funeral
“Jill’s calm spirit provided a vital sense of peace for our family in our darkest hour.”
The Thompson Family
Ceremony Officiating
Authentic, heartfelt ceremonies crafted with warmth,
dignity and emotional truth
Every ceremony tells a story. The words we choose - and the way we hold the space - shape how that moment is remembered. As a celebrant, my role is to create ceremonies that feel deeply personal, emotionally resonant, and true to the people at the heart of them.
I bring warmth, clarity, and gentle presence to every ceremony I officiate. No templates. No clichés.
Just carefully crafted words that honour your story, your values, and the tone you want to set.
Ceremonies Rooted in Authenticity
A meaningful ceremony doesn’t need grandeur.
It needs truth. It needs care. It needs someone who can listen deeply and translate your stories, memories, and intentions into language that feels alive.
I specialise in ceremonies that are:
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warm and human
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emotionally grounded
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inclusive and non‑denominational
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crafted with dignity, humour, and heart
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shaped around your voice, not mine
Every ceremony is written from scratch. Every word is chosen with intention. And every moment is held with the respect it deserves.
Memorial and Celebration of Life Ceremonies
Honouring a life is one of the most profound responsibilities a celebrant can hold. I work closely with families to create ceremonies that reflect the true character of the person who has died - their quirks, their humour, their values, their loves, and the legacy they leave behind.
My approach is gentle, spacious, and deeply human. I help families find the words they didn’t know they needed, and I hold the ceremony with calm, steady presence so they can simply be there, supported and unhurried.
This may include:
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crafting a full tribute or eulogy
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shaping readings, reflections, and moments of stillness
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weaving together stories from family and friends
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guiding the emotional flow of the ceremony
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offering support with committal and closing words
Every ceremony is unique, because every life is unique.
My cost is £280 which includes the family meeting, creating and delivering the service.